Everyone is this world, always will try to help their friends, family and even strangers. What are we doing this for? It is for fame? For something for exchange? Or is that you must help them? Most people would do it for these reasons. But people also help..because they want too!~ But have you ever thought, that helping people might hurt the people that they are trying to help? In Harry Potter in many of its' book have these problem.. People tried to cheer up Harry..why? Because he sometimes going through a lot of things. But it end up hurting him, making him sad or angry.
Harry Potter..who has been marked equal as the Dark Lord. His parents murdered. Famous, because he withstood the might of the Dark Lord. But infamous in his guardians' house..getting child abused..and even in his magic
school. His friends is always there to help him, sometimes..by helping him is by pissing him off. Telling his mistakes so he can see what is needed to be done. And sometimes hurting him was needed (feelings) Without them..he would just mess up and go into a dead end.
Friends always trying make people happy right? But have you been sad..and a friend who tried to cheer you up..failed? They made you much more upset? Well, it happened to me. I doubt it never happened in your life. Friends is good..sometimes they are just simply minded about your life..they might not understand you. But they tried. So when a friend, how is trying to cheer you up, backfires..don't blame him/her. :D
This blog post is very informative and I like how you are asking a lot of questions. But your personal connection is too short, its only like 2 sentences.
ReplyDeleteThis has happened to me where I have tried to help someone, but it only made things worse. Maybe for them, or even for someone else too. It has also happened to me where I was the one that someone else was trying to help. It only made me feel worse about what was going on and discouraged me a bit. NICE POST!!!!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteOk, I will work on that!
ReplyDeleteThank you Jesse :D